From the very bottom of our hearts... We both want to say how incredibly sorry we are for your loss. It's hard to convey through a computer screen the humanity behind that statement, but please know that we are a team of women who are holding you closely in our hearts, even if we might never learn your name.
However you are feeling right now, that is allowed. Grief doesn't move in a straight line, and there is no schedule you're supposed to be keeping.
Support tends to show up all at once in the early days. It's often later, after the visits taper off and the casseroles stop coming, that the quiet permanence of loss sets in, and that is usually when people need somewhere to turn the most. We built this page for that moment. Come back to it today, next month, or next year.